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How to Ask a Girl Out | Quick and Dirty Tips

Imagine if you could make one simple tweak to the way that you approach girls,

 and see an instant improvement in the way she responds to your flirts.

Or even better:

What if there were 7 of these tweaks…

…and each of them could get your "dream girl" to be more attracted to you, to see you as a potential love mate (boyfriend)?

You’d probably be pumped to read about them.

Lucky for you,

that’s exactly what I’m going to share with you in this post:
7 insanely practical ways to ask a girl out and get her to say yes.

Let's dive right in;




1. Make Yourself Scarce.

Well, I know what you are thinking. I know that you think that this advice sounds very very counterintuitive.

You might be wondering why I said that knowing fully that this post is all about 'getting girls'.

It is normal to assume that doing this will make the girl not to agree to your request for a date.

However, the opposite had proven to be the case ALMOST all of the time.

Here's why;

Girls don't like boys that are "always around".

 It makes them to take you as everybody else.
And with time, whatever romantic feelings that she used to have for you will be extremely diluted.

What's worse?

You will become just another one of her many friends.
And that will make her to give you a very big " NO" on the day that you finally managed to summon up the courage required to ask her out.

Guy, I am sure that you don't even want that to happen. And I am sure that you don't the one who you lose sleep for to tag you as just "a friend".

So, here's what you should do;

Next time you get the urge to go to your crush's house, place a hand on your heart and tell yourself " Dude, calm down!".

Play your favorite game, watch that movie that you have been waiting for its release, enjoy a pack of  your most favorite snacks that just ordered from MacDonald's or do any other thing that pleases you but by all means don't go.

And if you feel like going out, call a male friend of yours and tell him that you need to hang out.

 You can as well talk about the girl during the hangout.
Your friend might put in a word or two or lend a hand here and there in your strategy to get the girl of your dreams.

Look;

That doesn't mean that you should stop being there when she needs you.

That doesn't mean that you should stop dishing out some tricks to get her to like you more.

Of course, showing the girl the kind of attitude best described as "I don't care" isn't going to favour you at all. In fact, it is a fatal flaw which will end up making the girl to leave you for another guy.

What's the bottom line?

It's best not to overwhelm the other person by chatting, calling and visiting her all the time.
Let your presence and chats mean "something" to her. When that happens, she will dream about you, think about you and the romantic feelings she had for you will grow in leaps.


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2. Study her Like a Book to Find Out 
What Interests her the Most.

You should know this, the easiest way to entice a woman is to identify the kind of things that gets her excited.

No woman can resist a man who embodies all their interests.

In order to get this very and important information, you need to go down and dirty in digging around.
You can ask her friends or her neighbours or her classmates.

They will surely have one or two beans to spill about the kind of things she enjoys.

If you don't want to go through that route of playing "a detective", then you might be interested in these tips.

Visit the same places that she normally goes to; it is preferable that you walk in earlier than her so that she will not feel as if you are stalking her.
Sit nearer to the place that she is seating and listen to some of the things that make her laugh.

If this process seems so lengthy for you, you should just go ahead and ask her directly. You might be surprised to find out that both of you share similar interests.

So...

Assuming that your crush is someone that enjoys Game Of Thrones TV Show (HBO), you can go and make a play list of all the Last Harpy explainer videos and send her the URL.
If video games is something that she enjoys, go on and get the beet video games out there for her enjoyment.

In all, you should always try to avoid clash of interests. You should not just do something because your crush want to.
Doing that will make the relationship to turn sour as soon as it begins.






3. Find Out Whether She Has Feelings For You.

It is very easy to convince someone to do something that they are very much likely to do any way.

So...

If you notice that the girl you're falling for is also falling for you, then thank your stars my brother because your job is half done.

How, do you know whether a girl likes you or not?

Here are the signs to look out for if you want to know whether your crush is throwing friendly glances or inviting you to come closer.

 The best way to determine this is to look out for these signs below.

√ How does she feel whenever you talk to her?
√ Does she touch you unnecessarily?
√ Check out how she looks at you - is it steady?
√ Does she enjoy talking and listening to you?

If the common response to the above questions is "yes", then you are likely to get her to say yes when you ask her out.






4. Choose a Very Romantic Place and Time

Asking a girl out at the wrong place comes with the grave consequence of getting a very annoyed " NO".

As a rule of thumb, you should never ask her out when she's with her other friends or relatives. Even if she's alone but she's quite busy, you shouldn't venture to make your romantic request.

If you do, you will not like the answer that you will get.

So, where is the best place for that?

There's no stamped place for doing that. However, you must note that there are some things that you should look out for while selecting your location.

Ensure that wherever you choose is the type of place that she could go for the sake of relaxation. Also, hers friends or close relations should not be near the location.

If you ask at the right place, you are likely to get the right response that you are desperate to hear from her.





5. Step Up Your Looks.

I bet you probably already knew this;

The first thing women notice about men is their appearance. If that is the focal point of most women, then you have to work on it. Doing that will make you to be able to get a "yes"  response from your crush. Why wouldn't she?

No sane woman turns down a nicely dressed gentleman.

Before that day comes around, visit Pinterest and check out the trending men's fashion. Then, go to the store nearest store and pick up some clothes and shoes based on the inspiration that you got from Pinterest's men's fashion.

Don't forget your perfume - you have to smell good too.






6. Write Down and Practice What You Are Going to Say

You might be the best orator in the world but nothing beats preparedness.

In fact, most guys who think that they have got everything under control ended with messed up proposals. That means that the best thing to do is to get you and your speech ready for that day.

Don't try to overdo it by adding so many romantic words. It should just be a one or two sentence stuff. I think that two is even too much.

In fact, just try to make it as simple as possible.

This is based on the fact that the more simple it is, the easier it will be for you to remember and say it well at the heat of the moment.

A simple sentence like "I would want to go out for dinner with you after work, what do you think?" is sufficient.







7. Pop the Question Like You Own The Place.

Girls hate timid guys. That's a fact!

 If you check out the history of humanity, you will come across several instances where acts of bravery and boldness of some men won them the hearts of many women.

Also, the legendary seducer, Casanova was noted for his bold manner of approaching women.

What does that mean for you?

It means that you should raise your head high while asking your girl out. Be the knight in the shinning armor for them.

Don't ask as if you are afraid! No, take it up a notch!

Smile, touch her hand lightly and while looking into her eyes, ask her out.


Enjoy your date!








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